What is the structure of the relationship?

Power

Structure

Abuse

Battering

How do we come to an understanding?

Consensual reality

Validating differing perspectives

Knowing our experiencing

Giving language to our experience

Feeling safe to disclose our experience

Managing anxiety when we hear how the other is different

Mirroring the other such that the other feels heard

What is a durable agreement?

Identifying common needs

Owning individual commitments

Restoring damaged agreements

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